April 26, 2025 by Emma Johnson

Lately, I’ve been feeling so frustrated with my husband. He’s only 32, and for some reason, he gets exhausted after doing the smallest things. We’ll clean the house, and he’s wiped out. We’ll go grocery shopping, and he’s too tired. It’s starting to worry me because we don’t have any kids yet, and he’s acting like he’s in his 50s or 60s.

I’m a very adventurous person, and I love being active, but I’m starting to feel like I’m putting my life on hold. I recently opened a small business, and I’ve got deliveries to make. The only thing my husband is supposed to do is take me to these deliveries. But every time I ask him to help, he makes these faces, complains about being tired, and just doesn’t want to go. I end up doing everything on my own, and it’s exhausting.

It’s really starting to get on my nerves. I feel like I’m carrying the weight of everything. I don’t know if it’s just his natural tendency to be this way, or if something’s going on with him physically, but it’s getting harder to deal with. I’ve tried talking to him about it, but he just brushes it off. I don’t know what to do anymore.

I feel like I’m stuck in a relationship where I’m doing all the work, and I can’t move forward with my own goals because he’s constantly holding me back. I want to be patient, but it’s hard when it feels like I’m the only one putting in the effort.