Author: Nathan Cross

Date: April 26, 2025

I’m not really sure how to even put this out there without sounding like a total creep, but here goes. I have a breeding fetish. There’s just something about the idea of trying to get a woman pregnant that really gets to me — like it taps into something way deeper than just sex. It’s not even about the act itself all the time; it’s the thought of creating life, of being part of something bigger.

The problem is, I don’t actually want to be a dad. I don’t want to pay child support, deal with custody battles, or spend the next 18 years bound to someone because of a moment of passion. I know that sounds selfish, but it’s the truth.

Sometimes I wish there were more women out there who wanted kids but didn’t expect anything beyond that — no strings, just a way for both of us to get what we want. It feels weird carrying around this craving for connection and creation, but also this need to stay free.

Maybe it makes me a bad person. Maybe it just makes me human. I don’t know. I’m just tired of feeling like there’s no safe way to even talk about it.