April 26, 2025 by James T. Carter

I don’t know how much longer I can take it. My wife is a strong-willed woman, and while I admire her confidence and determination, lately it feels like she’s constantly picking on me. It’s like nothing I do is good enough, and the criticism seems to come out of nowhere. I try to brush it off, but it’s gotten to the point where I’m questioning myself all the time. My self-esteem is shot, and I just feel… useless.

I’ve been struggling lately, especially with my weight. I’ve gained some pounds after not exercising as much and eating more than I should. It’s been a tough time for me, but instead of supporting me through this, my wife has been fat-shaming me. I don’t even know how to explain it, but it feels emasculating. When she points out my belly, it’s like she’s erasing every bit of confidence I have left. I know I’m not in the best shape, but it’s painful when the one person who’s supposed to build you up is the one tearing you down.

I don’t know what to do anymore. I don’t feel motivated to change because it’s like no matter what I do, I’m just going to be criticized. But at the same time, I can’t help but want her to see me differently, to appreciate me for who I am, and not just for how I look.

Thanks for listening. I needed to get this off my chest.